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Caregiving

In Hawaiʻi, 1 in 6 adults are caregivers and nearly 1 in 3 caregivers care for someone living with dementia. You are not alone. Everyone has either been a caregiver, is currently a caregiver, will be a caregiver, or will need a caregiver.

As caregivers, we often neglect to care for ourselves since we’re so focused on caring for our person. However, your well-being is vital to your ability to care for your person. Self-care is not selfish. Join us on this journey to wellness. Take care of yourself too!

If you need help now:

Call the Alzheimer’s Association 24/7 Helpline at 1-800-272-3900 for free support and connect with a live person who can provide information, local resources, crisis assistance and emotional support.

Call or text Hawai’i CARES at 988 for 24/7 FREE support services for help with crisis, mental health, and substance use.

If you are experiencing an emergency, please call 911.

Does the person you are caring for have dementia?

There are some potentially reversible and treatable causes for dementia-like symptoms. It’s important to talk to a healthcare professional for a cognitive screening and evaluation.

Normal Aging

  • Making a bad decision once in a while
  • Missing a monthly payment
  • Forgetting which day it is but remembering later
  • Sometimes forgetting which word to use
  • Misplacing things from time to time and retracing steps to find them

Not Normal

  • Making poor judgments and decisions a lot of the time
  • Problems taking care of monthly bills
  • Losing track of the date or time of the year
  • Trouble having a conversation
  • Misplacing things and losing the ability to retrace steps

Resources

We know that searching for resources can be overwhelming. Here are two ways to get to the info you need.

  1. Select the stage of dementia your person is in. This will take you to resources curated for caregiving in that stage.
  2. Click the question below that best matches what you’re looking for.

Mild Cognitive Impairment (Before)

  • Difficulty coming up with words or following a conversation
  • Missing appointments or social events
  • Trouble finding their way around places they know well.
  • Finding it hard to make decisions, finish a task or follow instructions
View Resources

Early Stage Dementia

  • Trouble with the more executive cognitive functions like planning and judgment
  • Difficulties in problem solving, and possibly trouble planning ahead to prevent problems
  • Begin to show signs of having trouble with abstract thought, and/or difficulty grasping “the big picture”
  • Have difficulties with complicated tasks they were previously able to perform well and with satisfaction
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Mid Stage Dementia

  • Forgetting events or personal history
  • Experiencing confusion regarding where they are and what time it is
  • Increased tendency to wander or become lost
  • Demonstrating personality and behavioral changes, including suspiciousness and delusions or compulsive, repetitive behavior like hand-wringing or tissue shredding.
View Resources

Late Stage Dementia

  • Require around-the-clock assistance with daily personal care.
  • Lose awareness of recent experiences as well as of their surroundings.
  • Experience changes in physical abilities, including walking, sitting and, eventually, swallowing.
  • Become vulnerable to infections, especially pneumonia.
View Resources

Don’t know what stage?

No worries. Here’s some common questions to help you find quick answers:

  • I need a doctor. (neurologist/geriatrician)
  • My person has just been diagnosed. What now?
  • How do I plan for the future?
  • What kind of advance care planning and legal documents do we need?
  • I need caregiving tips for daily tasks (e.g. bathing, meals, behaviors, etc.)
  • We need direct care services. Where do we go for help?
  • We can’t afford care. What do I do?
  • I think we need to find a place for them to live with professional care. Where do I start?

Resource Library

AARP

Education, webinars, trainings, advocacy, online info

  • Types: Education & Training, Info & Resources, Specializing in Advocacy
  • Stages: Before
  • Areas: Online, Statewide, Hawaii, Kauai, Maui, Oahu
    Headquarters: State Office on Oʻahu
  • Contact:

    Gary Simon, Keli’i, Jackie Boland

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ALS Network

Care management, support groups, online info, advocacy, education/webinars

  • Types: Education & Training, Guidance & Counseling, Info & Resources, Support Groups & Community
  • Stages: Early, Middle, Late
  • Areas: National, Statewide, Hawaii, Kauai, Maui, Oahu
  • Contact:

    Cherryl Fluke, Rex Like

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Alu Like, Native Hawaiian Caregiver Support

Info & assistance accessing services, Counseling, Support Groups, respite services

  • Types: Guidance & Counseling, Support Groups & Community
  • Stages: Early, Middle
  • Areas: Oahu, Hawaii, Maui, Kauai, Statewide
  • Contact:

    ph: (808) 535-6700

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Alzheimer’s Association Hawaiʻi Chapter

support groups, counseling, educational presentations, resources and info on website

  • Types: Education & Training, Guidance & Counseling, Info & Resources, Support Groups & Community, Specializing in Advocacy
  • Stages: Before, Early, Middle, Late
  • Areas: Oahu, Hawaii, Maui, Kauai, Statewide, National, Online
  • Contact:

    LJ Duenas, Ivy Castellano, Coby Chock. To register for support group, please call 808.518.6651.

View Resource

Alzheimer’s Caregiving & The Caregivers

prepare, equip, and provide evolving support to “families” caregiving; Information, caregiving tips, online video series on HI Now

  • Types: Education & Training, Info & Resources
  • Stages: Middle, Late
  • Areas: Hawaii, Online
  • Contact:

    Tony Vericella

View Resource
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Frequently Asked Questions

  • Medicare vs. Medicaid

    Medicare is federal health insurance for people 65 years older, and some people under 65 with certain disabilities or conditions. Medicare does not pay for home care or long-term care services. Medicaid is a joint federal and state program that provides health coverage or nursing home coverage for people with limited income and resources. The Medicaid program in Hawaiʻi is called Med-QUEST.

    Learn more:

  • Home Care vs. Home Health Care

    Home care is personal care services provided in the home or community. It may include assistance with activities of daily living (e.g. bathing, toileting, meal preparations, etc.), chore services or light housekeeping, escort to appointments or grocery shopping, companionship and supervision. Home health care includes a range of intermittent skilled services provided in the home for an illness or injury. It may include physical therapy, occupational therapy, speech-language pathology services, and intermittent skilled nursing care like wound care, monitoring serious illness, or patient education.

    Home care is often paid for privately, with long-term care insurance, or Med-QUEST. Home health care may be covered by Medicare, private health insurance plans, or Med-QUEST.

    Learn more:

  • Adult Day Care vs. Adult Day Health

    Both are services that provide supervision and assistance for adults during the daytime. Adult Day Care help seniors remain engaged while promoting physical and mental health through socialization, activities, meals, minimal assistance and gentle exercise. Adult Day Health includes the same services as Adult Day Care but may also provide medication administration, more assistance with personal care, skilled nursing care, physical therapy, health monitoring (e.g. blood glucose levels), and support for ongoing health conditions. Both Adult day care and adult day health are often paid for privately, with long-term care insurance, Med-QUEST, or the State Kupuna Care Program.

    Learn more:

  • Care Home vs. Adult Foster

    Both care homes and foster homes are non-institutional settings where adults can go to live and receive care in a residential home-like setting. In Hawaiʻi, we often use the term “Care Home” for Adult Residential Care Homes (ARCH) and the term “Foster Home” for Community Care Foster Family Homes (CCFFH).

    An ARCH is a type of residential care home for adults who require at least minimal assistance with activities of daily living (ADL), such as bathing, walking, dressing, eating, and toileting. There are different levels of care for ARCHs. An Expanded ARCH cares for adults who require 24/7 assistance with ADLs and/or may require skilled nursing  services. An ARCH usually has one to five residents, but level II ARCH and level II Expanded ARCH can have six or more residents. ARCH costs are usually around $6,000-12,000+ per month for private pay and some residents may use long-term care insurance.

    A CCFFH is a type of residential care home where residents live with the home-owner family and receive assistance with ADLs. They provide a higher level of care called intermediate care facility (ICF) level that is often provided in large institutional facility settings except CCFFHs provide this care in a home like setting. CCFFHs usually have three residents. CCFFHs are often more affordable than ARCH. CCFFH usually costs start around $4,000-$6,000+ per month for private pay and they are required to accept at least one resident on Med-QUEST or Medicaid. CCFFH residents are required to have a case management agency to monitor their care and this may cost private pay residents $500+ per month.

    Learn more:

  • What is a Geriatrician?

    A Geriatrician is a doctor who is specially training in treating older patients, especially those with multiple health problems or complex conditions. Geriatricians promote quality of life, preventative care, and healthy aging. Geriatricians may be more familiar with managing illnesses and addressing issues that are more common among older adults, such as dementia, arthritis, fall risk, advance care planning, end of life care, etc. Geriatricians have a specialized approach to medication management for older adults, considering multiple comorbidities, longer half-life, potential interactions and side effects. Primary Care Physician make refer older patients to see a Geriatrician and patients may continue to receive medical services from both disciplines.

    Here’s few links to specialty Geriatric clinics:

  • Respite Resources

    Respite care is temporary care intended to provide short-term relief for primary caregivers. Respite gives the caregiver time to rest, do self-care, errands, travel, or spend time with other family and friends. Respite care can last anywhere from a few hours to weeks at a time. It’s usually provided at home by private home care agencies, at an adult day care center, in a nursing facility or assisted living facility. It’s most often private pay, but it may be covered through long term care insurance or the state kupuna care program.

    Click here to visit the Hawaiʻi Department of Health State Licensing Section website to view listings of Hawaii Licensed Home Care Agencies, Adult Day Care Centers, Skilled Nursing / Intermediate Care Facilities, and Assisted Living Facilities.

    Hawaiʻi Caregiver Foundation – List of Oahu Respite Resources
    https://thecaregiverfoundation.org/learn-more/mental-illnesses/respite-care

    Call the statewide Aging and Disability Resource Center to find options for services and supports.
    Phone: (808) 643-ADRC (808-643-2372)
    TTY: (808) 643-0889

  • What kind of advance care planning and legal documents do we need?

  • I need caregiving tips for daily tasks (e.g. bathing, meals, behaviors, etc.)

    Caregiving is a hard job that most of us are not prepared for, and yet we end up filling this role at a moment’s notice. Kudos to you for answering the call! Here are a few resources with information on how to navigate day to day activities with a person living with dementia.

  • We need direct care services. Where do we go for help?

    It’s a big step to acknowledge the need for care and accept help for you or your person. It doesn’t mean you’re a failure. It means that you’re prioritizing safety and well-being by getting the care you need. As the care partner, you’re caring for your person by getting the respite you need to keep going.

    There are different types of care to consider, such as home care, adult day care, and residential settings like care homes. Click the other FAQ titles to learn more about the difference.

    You can call senior care agencies directly to learn more about their services and arrange care for your person. If this seems daunting, it can be helpful to call for guidance. Here’s a few places to get started:

  • We can't afford care. What do I do?

    Senior care can be quite expensive to pay for out-of-pocket, especially if someone does not have long-term care insurance or significant retirement savings. Here are a few resources to find assistance:

    • The State Kupuna Care Program provides services intended to help older adults live independently in the community, safely and healthily, for as long as possible. These services may include Adult Day Care, Assisted Transportation, Attendant Care, Case Management, Chore services, Home Delivered Meals, Homemaker, Transportation, and Personal Care. This program is administered by the Area Agencies on Aging (AAA). Call: (808) 643-ADRC (808-643-2372) or TTY (808) 643-0889 and your call will be directed to your local AAA based on the county you are calling from.
    • Medicaid is a joint federal and state program that provides health coverage and long term services and supports for some people with limited income and resources. The Medicaid program in Hawaiʻi is called Med-QUEST. These are the Long-Term Services and Supports that Med-QUEST may provide to members who qualify and meet appropriate level of care. Click here to get started on your application. This website has a quick Pre-Assessment to find out if you could qualify.

    Here are a few organizations with volunteers who provide support for older adults in Hawaiʻi at no cost:

    • Our Kupuna connects kūpuna with volunteers who can shop and deliver groceries, medication and other necessary supplies. Call 808-215-0073 to see if you meet their eligibility requirements. Visit their website: https://www.ourkupuna.com/
    • Project Dana has volunteers who offer non-medical services on Oʻahu to assist elderly in instrumental activities of daily living (IADLs) such as, transportation, grocery shopping, light housekeeping, and friendly visitation. Call (808) 945-3736 and visit their website: https://www.projectdana.org/
    • Nā Hoaloha has volunteers on Maui who can provide friendly visitation, telephone reassurance program, escort transportation services, in-home respite, and falls prevention program. Call (808) 249-2545 and visit their website: https://nahoaloha.org/
    • Catholic Charities Hawaiʻi has a wide array of Senior Services (e.g. Case management, housing assistance, transportation, Phone-A-Friend, workshops, caregiver support, etc.). They also have a Memory Mentor Programwhich offers free in-home services for seniors with memory loss who are living alone with little or no caregiving support. Volunteers may provide friendly in-home visits, safety checks, grocery shopping, help with reviewing mail, and providing reminders. Visit their website to learn more: https://www.catholiccharitieshawaii.org/senior-services/ Contact their Senior Intake Line at (808) 527-4777.

    If you know of other programs who should be listed here, please email DOH.Dementia@doh.hawaii.gov

Support Groups & Upcoming Events

July 12th from 10:00 am - 12:00 pm

Project Dana Caregiver Support Group

Project Dana’s Caring for the Caregiver (C4C) program offers services to family caregivers and soon to be caregivers. The goal of the program is to help alleviate the stress that […]

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July 14th from 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm

Alzheimer's Association Hawaiʻi Chapter (Oʻahu) Caregiver Support Group

We offer support groups for caregivers and individuals living with Alzheimer’s or other dementia. All support groups are facilitated by trained individuals. Support groups create a safe, confidential, supportive environment […]

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July 15th from 11:00 am - 3:00 pm

Online Champion Course 3 + 4

Positive Approach to Care’s Champion Courses are online live courses that help learners begin to build the skills needed to interact with someone living with dementia. Champion Course 3 + […]

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